In Control or Controlled
Respond or react?
Patience is better than strength. Controlling your temper is better than capturing a city. Proverbs 16: 32 ncv
Many times …
In our world, there are many good reasons—as well as many bad reasons—to feel angry.
Controlled anger is a response to a given situation.
When we manage our anger well, we put ourself in a position of leadership.
When we react, by contrast, we can be the hotheaded person alienates even his friends and sows the seeds of his own demise.
These questions will help: Is our anger motivating constructive action?
Is it appropriate to the situation?