Every day with everyone in every way. “Every” is a word and life style seldomly employed. Yet… I’m a person of patterns and habits. This focus prepares me to respond rather than react to the surprises in every day. Everyday I read faces and books, reflect, review, pray, and write. I ask “what delights and […]

Very alike

In certain ways we are all alike — to be cared for or cared about, to be respected, to be listened, to be understood,to belong, to be protected from harm. We want and need freedom and opportunity. The first rule of relationships is this: Find out what you want and give it to others. To […]

Which one?

Guardian or gossiper? We all have parts of our life which we need to keep to ourself. We call these our secrets that we don’t want shared with just anybody. Every person needs someone can be trusted and with whom we feel safe. These persons exude confidence, someone in whom we believe. Please chose these […]


Now is the time to get rid of anger, rage, malicious behavior, slander, and dirty language. Colossians 3: 8 nlt This message and wisdom given over two thousand years ago to a small community in Greece needs to be spoken and followed today. All five of those actions harm, infest, and destroy our world. Let’s […]


Counsel Where there is no counsel, the people fall; but in the multitude of counselors there is safety. Proverbs 11: 14 nkjv The reserve states “Where counsel exists, success exists.” A wise spouse, a trustworthy friend. One is good and many are better. Let’s seek out, listen to, and value the counselors in our life. […]